Right now, I'm watching the TLC show Sister Wives. I used to not be sure how I felt about men with multiple wives, but now I know exactly what my feelings are.
There are probably, very likely, many polygamist families existing peacefully. But, conceptually and theoretically speaking, it is not possible to have an equal and loving relationship between a man and several women. There will always been needs not being met and jealousy between wives.
The basic human emotions of selfishness and possessiveness, are things that need to be stepped above. But the essentialism of a two-person loving relationship becomes skewed when more women become involved. It is impossible, and not only that but harmful to those involved, to have to literally 'share' your husband. The whole point of a relationship is mutuality and completeness--not being pulled each way.
Like I said. It's just my view. I would never ever pull myself in multiple directions. I am a commitment-phobe but I am still in hopes of finding someone to share my life with. It's really just not for me.
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